Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking: New Jersey
This Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking policy applies to employees in New Jersey under the Security and Financial Empowerment (SAFE) Act and explains how your organization will provide up to 20 days of job-protected, unpaid leave when an employee or a covered family member needs time away to address safety, medical care, counseling, housing, or legal needs after domestic violence or a sexually violent offense. It also sets clear expectations around eligibility, notice, documentation, confidentiality, and non-retaliation, so employees can request support without having to share unnecessary details.
The History Behind Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking Policies in New Jersey
This policy sits in Family & Self Care Leaves, originating from the reality that survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault often need time during business hours to do the things that actually make them safer. Medical visits, counseling, meeting with advocates, changing locks, finding housing, going to court, getting a restraining order, talking to prosecutors... none of that happens neatly after 5 p.m. New Jersey lawmakers heard, again and again, that without job-protected time off, many people either stayed in dangerous situations or lost their income trying to get out.
That pressure led to the New Jersey Security and Financial Empowerment (SAFE) Act, signed in 2013 (P.L.2013, c.82). The law created up to 20 days of unpaid, job-protected leave for employees who are victims, or whose covered family members are victims, so they can handle the safety, health, and legal fallout of an incident. The eligibility thresholds (12 months of service and 1,000 hours worked) and the documentation options were part of the compromise: employees get real access to leave without having to relive the details at work, and employers get a way to confirm the request is tied to a qualifying event.
What's interesting is what the SAFE Act doesn't try to do. It doesn't replace other leave laws, it's meant to stack when the facts overlap, and it doesn't pretend a single day off fixes anything. It's a narrow tool with a specific job: protect someone's paycheck and position while they deal with a crisis that rarely stays outside the workplace.
Which Law is the Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking Policy Meant to Comply With?
If you create and distribute a Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking Policy for your New Jersey-based employees, it is in an effort to comply with New Jersey's Security and Financial Empowerment Act (NJ SAFE Act) (P.L.2013, c.82).
How to Write a New Jersey-Specific Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking Policy
- Start with "why" and introduce the concept, explain that New Jersey SAFE Act leave supports employees dealing with domestic or sexual violence-related safety, medical, counseling, housing, and legal needs.
- Define who can take the leave by stating the basic employee eligibility requirements and who counts as a covered family member.
- List the main qualifying reasons for leave, such as medical care, counseling, victim services, safety planning or relocation, and legal help or court participation.
- Explain the leave structure by stating that the leave is unpaid, limited in amount, and can be taken as a block or intermittently.
- Address how this leave coordinates with other leave laws by noting it may run concurrently when the same reason qualifies under multiple programs.
- Describe the notice process at a high level by explaining that employees should provide notice as early as they reasonably can.
- Explain documentation expectations by stating you may request confirming documentation, without requiring employees to share detailed incident facts.
- Include a confidentiality commitment covering leave requests and supporting documentation, with disclosure only by written permission or legal requirement.
- Add a non-retaliation statement that prohibits adverse action for requesting or taking leave or for refusing to authorize disclosure of protected information.
- End with a clear point of contact for questions and leave requests using your HR team placeholder.
When to Include this Policy in Your Employee Handbook
If you have employees in New Jersey and you don't have a similar policy that's available for all US employees, you should include this policy in your employee handbook for New Jersey-based employees.
The law states:
"An employer shall conspicuously display notification, in a place or places accessible to all employees in each of the employer's workplaces, of employees' rights and obligations under this act, in a form issued by regulation promulgated by the commissioner." (New Jersey Security and Financial Empowerment Act (SAFE Act), P.L.2013, c.82, codified at N.J.S.A. 34:11C-4)
Your employee handbook qualifies as a way to publish this information to employees, but the statute specifically requires a conspicuous workplace posting in a form issued by the New Jersey Department of Labor and Workforce Development, so you'll typically want both: the required poster and a handbook policy that explains how employees can request SAFE Act leave.
Other Considerations
The law applies to New Jersey employers who have at least 25 employees working in the US.
Exceptions
None
Model Policy Template for a Leave for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Stalking Policy
Leave for Domestic or Sexual Violence
If you or certain family members experience domestic or sexual violence, you may be entitled to time off under New Jersey’s Security and Financial Empowerment (SAFE) Act. This leave is designed to give you space to address safety, medical, counseling, housing, and legal needs related to the incident.
You may be eligible for SAFE Act leave if you've worked here for at least 12 months and have worked at least 1,000 hours in the 12 months prior to the start of leave.
Reasons for Leave
You can use this leave if you or a family member are the victim of domestic violence or a sexually violent offense (as defined by New Jersey law), including:
- Getting medical care or recovering from physical or psychological injuries.
- Obtaining services from a victim-services organization.
- Getting psychological or other counseling.
- Participating in safety planning, temporarily or permanently relocating, or taking other steps to increase your safety or your family member’s safety or economic security.
- Seeking legal help or protections (such as restraining orders) or taking part in civil or criminal legal proceedings.
- Attending, participating in, or preparing for criminal or civil court proceedings related to the incident.
For the purposes of this policy, "family member" includes your child, parent, spouse, domestic partner, or civil union partner.
Duration
If you’re eligible, you can take up to 20 days of unpaid SAFE Act leave in a 12-month period.
- Leave must be used in the 12 months following each qualifying incident.
- You can take it all at once or intermittently in full-day increments, depending on what you need and what your situation requires.
- Each incident of domestic or sexual violence starts its own 12-month window, but you cannot exceed 20 SAFE Act days in any one 12-month period.
SAFE Act leave may run at the same time as other leaves, such as the New Jersey Family Leave Act (NJFLA) or the federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), when the reason for leave qualifies under more than one law.
Notice and Documentation
If your leave is foreseeable (for example, a scheduled court date), please provide written notice as far in advance as is reasonable when possible. If the need is unexpected, notify us as soon as you can.
We may ask for documentation showing that the leave is related to domestic or sexual violence affecting you or your covered family member. You can satisfy this by providing one or more of the following:
- A restraining order or other court order.
- A letter or other written documentation from a county or municipal prosecutor.
- Documentation of a criminal conviction related to the incident.
- Medical documentation.
- A certification from a certified Domestic Violence Specialist or the director of a designated domestic violence agency or Rape Crisis Center.
- Documentation or certification from a social worker, member of the clergy, shelter worker, or other professional who has assisted you or your family member.
You do not need to share detailed facts about what happened, just enough to confirm eligibility.
If you don’t provide requested documentation within a reasonable time, your SAFE Act leave may be delayed or denied.
Pay
SAFE Act leave is unpaid. You may choose to use any accrued paid time off during some or all of your SAFE Act leave so that part of your time away is paid. When you do this, the paid time and SAFE Act leave will run at the same time and will both count against your 20-day SAFE Act entitlement.
Confidentiality
Any information you share with us related to a SAFE Act leave request (including documentation) will be kept confidential, unless you give written permission for us to share it or we are legally required to disclose it.
No Retaliation
We will not discharge, harass, discriminate, or retaliate against you in any way because you request or take SAFE Act leave or refuse to authorize disclosure of information that is confidential under the SAFE Act.
This includes adverse actions related to your pay, schedule, assignments, opportunities, or other terms and conditions of employment.
If you have questions about this policy, or if you need to request leave under the SAFE Act, contact {{the HR Team}}.
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The information provided here does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice. Only your own attorney can determine whether this information, and your interpretation of it, applies to your particular situation. You should contact legal counsel for advice on any specific legal matter.